Pragya Sharma

Do you remember when Hazel Grace in the book ‘The fault in our stars' said to Issac that ‘Pain demands to be felt' when he was moaning over his ex Monica who dumped him because he was gonna blind after few days. It sounds ridiculous telling a person in the pain that pain demands to be felt. But now wait a minute and just wonder what if no pain existed in this world. Neither physical nor emotional. Wouldn’t be our lives more easier? It would become more easier to get over your ex or sleep peacefully when you have a fracture in your arm. Sounds amazing. Right?  Now just imagine you are walking bare footed on a beautiful morning and you get a thorn in your feet accidentally, but as you don’t feel pain you don’t bother about it but that thorn dive deeper in your nerves and you are dead another day. We feel pain not because it is meant to be like this. We feel pain so that we can do something about that, we can dive deeper towards the reason why we are feeling that pain and how we c...

 Jay Shetty in his book 'Think Like A Monk' has quoted that 'letting go is a big part of the rhythm of nature, as is rebirth'. Sometimes letting go some things is the only way towards inner peace. It may be painful initially but you won't regret on your decision of letting go. Letting go helps you break the chains and move for something better. Let me illustrate this to you by an example. Have you ever observed a plum tree?  It sheds his all leaves during the month of November and December. It almost look bare and lifeless but as soon as spring arrives it is covered with beautiful white flowers. Now just stop and wonder if that tree would have stopped shedding his leaves will he have ever blossomed like this?  The answer is a big NO.  You may find it difficult to let go that toxic relationship or friendship. You may feel all lonely and aimless for some time. But remember something better is waiting for you. In the end everything will be worth it.   Thanks f...